There are a lot of fantasies about sucking cock. It can be an extremely pleasurable experience for both partners.
However, it is important to know how to keep yourself safe when you are sucking cock. This is because barrier methods like condoms can help protect you from sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). These include HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis.
1. Don’t be afraid to jerk
There’s a reason that mutual masturbation has been a sexual outlet for men down the Kinsey scale and across the spectrum for centuries. For straight-identified men in particular, it can be a way to explore an interest in other males at arm’s length, like clicking through a PornHub clip that’s not their usual flavor.
While it’s not necessarily safe to jerk the entire head of a man’s penis – this can damage their nerves, and make them less receptive to the rest of the experience – it is perfectly acceptable to lick, touch and gently tease his cock in order to build up to a full sucking. A little kiss and a lot of licking will have him squirming his ass with pleasure and he’ll be more than happy to take the plunge when you’re ready.
While oral sex is not as safe as anal sex, there’s no risk of catching HIV this way because the throat and mouth don’t have the same protective qualities that the arse does. However, the mouth and throat are vulnerable to other STIs such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, and herpes so it’s always a good idea to use a condom in this situation.
2. Don’t be afraid to lick
It’s important not to be afraid to lick when you have your gay cock sucked. Licking helps lubricate and makes the experience even more pleasurable for both you and your partner. Also, licking is important because it can help prevent STIs from spreading.
If you’re worried about HIV passing through oral sex, rest assured that no one has ever caught it from having their cock licked. However, it is possible to pass on other STIs through oral sex, including gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes, and hepatitis A. These STIs can cause sores, blisters and discharges (which are easy to see) before they’re diagnosed and treated.
The more the world tells you that something is taboo, the more it will draw you in. It’s perfectly normal for straight men to fantasize about sucking cock and it definitely doesn’t make you gay. In fact, having a desire to lick a man’s hard, cum-dripping cock is actually a pretty common fetish for many people. Those who are able to admit it, that is. It’s a rush of control blending with subservience that is utterly irresistible.
3. Don’t be afraid to make eye contact
When it comes to gay cock sucking, eye contact is an important part of flirting and gauging whether or not a guy is horny. It’s also an excellent way to tell if a guy is comfortable with his sexual urges or not.
In dark rooms where words are almost an abomination, the only thing that people use to communicate is body and eye contact. If a guy holds his gaze for a long time, that is a good sign that he’s comfortable with oral sex and he really cares about the person he’s fucking.
Of course, not everyone holds their gaze in the same way and you shouldn’t force eye contact if it makes you uncomfortable. In the same way, if a guy you’re interested in grabs your crotch or butt, don’t fight it – simply pull away slowly and calmly to show them that you aren’t interested. This will let them know that they can’t force you and may even encourage them to come back later and try again. The most important thing to remember is that you are never forced to suck a man’s cock or do anything else that you don’t want to do.
4. Don’t be afraid to cover your teeth
Putting your mouth over a man’s penis is one of the greatest feelings in gay sex. It can bring them to mind-blowing orgasms in minutes and prolong the pleasure for hours. However, some guys don’t like the feel of teeth in their cock so it is important to cover your teeth.
Luckily, there are some simple ways to do this without losing the thrill of oral sex. Putting your lips over the head of his penis can help, as will licking from the head down. This also helps keep the cock lubricated, which is essential for comfort.
While it is low risk for HIV, it is possible to get STIs from oral sex – gonorrhea, chlamydia, and NGU can be spread this way, as can herpes and hepatitis A. It’s even easier to pass STIs when they are in sores or blisters, but the best way to avoid this is to use anal lube and a barrier such as a condom.
You could also try a throat spray such as the ones marketed by some fetish manufacturers (but don’t use this for anal sex, it can cause pain and is not safe to swallow). Alternatively, you can try yawning when the penis hits your throat, this can help open your mouth up.
5. Don’t be afraid to hold your breath
Whether you’re an old pro or just starting out, it is always a good idea to practice holding your breath. This will help to tighten your cheeks against your teeth and create a vacuum suction that is really quite amazing. Plus it will also ensure that you suck in plenty of saliva, which is the lubricant that makes this whole experience happen.
While it is true that nobody has ever caught HIV from having their cock sucked, it is still important to remember that oral sex does carry a small risk of infection. Infections caused by sores, blisters, or discharges such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes, and syphilis are far more likely to be passed on through oral sex than HIV is.
To minimize the risk of these infections, always use a condom when engaging in oral sex. It is the only method of protection that protects against both pregnancy and STIs. This should be a regular part of your sexual health routine. It is also a good idea to avoid brushing your teeth before or after doing oral sex as this can remove the protective barrier that your saliva provides.